"A gathering of ideas, rants, reflections leading up to the big day" is how Jennifer describes her She Weds blog. In a recent Pre Marriage Counseling post Jennifer writes about how she and her Fi (fiance) took the PREPARE/ENRICH readiness inventory.
"160 questions about finances, sexual issues, spirituality, family planning, our families, feelings, how we fight, how we make up...".
Jennifer, who is based in Arizona, USA, writes:
One thing I observed while taking the test is that how far Fi and I have come. There were a few 'division of labor' questions regarding household chores and future parenting. Fi and I have been together for over 5 years and have lived together for 4. So we have already divided our labor.
Fi does the kitchen, I clean the bathroom and vacuum and together we keep clutter down and do laundry. We split cooking evenly throughout the week. I coach on Tuesdays and have track on Wednesdays- he makes dinner. When Fi is in school, I pull a heavier load because his educational pursuits are important to me.
You can read Jennifer's thoughts on taking the PREPARE/ENRICH inventory in full here.
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