At the Marriage Forums on about.com, a person will share a pre-marriage issue that is an obvious deal breaker. Their advice?
Don't get married without knowing your future spouse's thoughts on these issues.
Compromise is usually not an option if the two of you have very different answers to The Ten Most Important Questions to Ask Before You Get Married.
Here are just three of the top ten deal breakers:
- Can we talk about money? The mechanics of how the two of you will handle your finances really isn't the issue. The issue is whether or not the two of you can calmly and practically talk about money.
- How much time will we spend with our in-laws?They may be wonderful people who love you both, but your in-laws should not be allowed to interfere in your marriage relationship. If either one of you will not set boundaries with your own parents when it comes to visits, phone calls, finances, children, etc., the problem with your in-laws will only worsen.
- How do you want to spend our days off? Balancing work and fun and family time and personal time is not easy. Living a balanced life together will create the time you both need, individually and together, for vacations, quiet time, and fun time.
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